got another saying... this one is from Matts msn name... don't think he'll eva see my blog but just in case he does, thanks hun...ur names always make me think...

He who controls the past commands the future. He who commands the future... conquers the past.

Something to think about when i am not so tired lol

a lovely little saying...

it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.

A Reason a Season or a Lifetime

People come into your life for a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime. When you know which one it is for a person, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.

They may seem like a Godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.

Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.


Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!

But, only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must
>build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

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I was sent this email a while ago and hadn't looked at it for ages. I have been really sad recently because of ppl leaving my life recenltly but it occured to me to actually read this message again. I can't seem to find the REASONS ppl seem to be coming into my life so maybe i have a lot of SEASONED ppl around.

I once asked a few of my friends which they thought they were in my life and one person said that they are all 3. Now if ur honest with urself u will find that any friend you have anyone thats dear to u at anylevel wil be a reason, season or a life friend and it seems only in retrospect, that u can appreciate which one they actually are. I have not had one friend that i can think of that i can say at the time... they are only in my life for this reason.... or they are only going to be around for a lil while.

Of course all friendshipe mean alot but the ones that i hold dearest to my heart would be the ones that are considered my lifetime relationships. JJ, Jamie, Jess and flo.. i love them all dearly glad to have good friends

Gemini

Gemini THE TWINS is the sign of the storyteller, the communicator
Geminis are widely known for their dual personalities and ability to change mood from moment to moment. Although they hate to be tied down, they make lively, entertaining and romantic partners, even if they can be rather fickle if bored or unhappy.
Natural communicators, Geminis do not suffer fools gladly; so once they are attracted to people, they have to ensure that they are not dull or mundane. They will no doubt spend ages chatting to them about every subject under the sun, just to keep feeding that ever active and inquisitive mind.

The bright side

Bright, witty, adaptable and quick to react. Very little troubles a Gemini or stops the relentless talking for long! Geminis can argue their way into or out of any situation. Having an active curiosity, Gemini is excellant at gathering all kinds of information and gossip. They excel at regurgitating this information in a constant stream, but not necessarily in a logical or understandable order! Geminis are capable of tackling almost anything, so long as they do not become bored. The difficulty lies in what subject to concentrate on today, Gemini is always engaged in two subjects or jobs at once.

Versatile, adaptable, intellectual, witty, charming, logical, energetic, spontaneous, lively, chatty, amusing, youthful, up-to-date.

The dark side
Geminis biggest faults are inconsistency and superficiality. People never know what to expect with Gemini, indeed they can be relied upon to do almost anything, in any situation. All that talking and instant reactions leaves little time for deeper thinking and planning, and too much whizzing about and quick reactions usually leads to sudden mental overload!

changeable, restless, cunning, inquisitive, inconsistent, fickle, two-faced, fidgety, superficial, gossipy, scattered, transparent.

Ailments
Accidents (usually small, but frequent), bronchitis, pneumonia, nervous exhaustion.

You are most compatible with
Libra - absolutely wonderful.
Leo - full of laughter.
Aquarius - good friends first, (and much more in this Geminis case!).
Sagittarius - Could be fun loving.
Aries - promising, though lightweight.

Absolutely no chance!
Cancer - steer clear! hehe no wonder things didn't work with my ex
Capricorn - don't see eye to eye.
Taurus - a difficult combination.
Pisces - traumatic!
Scorpio - volatile!

Gemini's Love Profile

ok so this sort of sounds a bit like me... but then again..... i am not completely sure its me

Gemini - Your Love Profile Your positive traits: Your lively, outgoing attitude attracts people to you everywhere you go. You can talk your way into - and out of - any situation you desire. You're adaptable enough to flirt with anyone - and people tend to fight over you. Your negative traits: You get easily bored in relationships, and tend to jump from person to person. You tend to be a bit of a player - and have a high tolerance for drama in relationships. Not the most emphathetic person, you tend to tell lovers to "get over" their problems. Your ideal partner: Is intelligent and quick witted enough to keep you interested. Is a bit of a shape shifter, providing you with the variety you crave. An open minded person, who's willling to have a non-traditional relationship. Your dating style: Exciting. If your date shows you a new experience (like Egyptian food or scuba diving), you're very happy. Your seduction style: Experimental: it's rare that you try the same thing twice. Ultra kinky - you do stuff that's not even in books yet. Hot and cold... sometimes you're just not into the whole sex thing. Tips for the future: Settle down a little. Sometimes good things come with time - so don't let people go so fast. Acknowledge that you're a player and flirt. If your mate can't live with this, find someone who can. Give your partner a little more attention. You don't have to be a social butterfly all the time. Best place to meet someone online: Match.com - enough sexy singles for you to find a new playmate when you get restless Best color to attract mate: Sunny yellow Best day for a date: Wednesday Get your free love profile at Blogthings.

My rising sign

Your Rising Sign is Scorpio

You're so intense and passionate - you're on fire! You want to be an angel or a devil... you can't decide which. No wonder you seem moody and even a little dangerious. You've got some major mystery going on, so work it! Your personality is the strongest of all signs, making you hard to deal with. While you're ruthless to your enemies, you're loyal to your one true love.

What is Your Rising Sign?

What Your Underwear Says About You

When you're bad, you're very bad. And when you're good, you're still trouble! You're comfortable in your own skin - and don't care to impress anyone.

The Underwear Oracle